If you aren't where you should be financially, examine what drives you emotionally when it comes to money and try to figure out the psychological stumbling blocks that keep you from becoming financially independent. Here are ten of the most important things you can do for yourself and your financial future:
Don't rely on someone else, like a partner or spouse, for your financial security. Educate yourself about money management and investing.
Set goals - it's key to financial success.
Don't use money to make yourself feel good. That type of high is fleeting. Instead, do things that promote self-respect and creativity so you don't have to seek those feelings through spending money.
Spend less than you earn - it's the secret to creating wealth. .
Get an education. People with an education make on average significantly more money than those who don't have degrees.
Build an emergency fund. Without one, losing your job or incurring a large unexpected bill could force you to take on heavy credit card debt, and could put you into a financial hole that will be difficult if not impossible to dig your way out of.
Be involved in the day-to-day management of your own or your family's finances, talk about money with your partner.
Don't let the fear of losing money, fear of failure, or fear of the unknown stop you from looking around for investments; large or small. People as young as 18 invest, see what you can do.
Learn from your money mistakes. Don't let them hobble you.
Your financial security and mental health is dependent on your attitudes and beliefs about money and your willingness to take your financial future into your own hands.

ref: Top Ten Money Tips - Deborah Fowles, About Financial planning |